Yesterday was our first RE apt., And I'm very EXCITED!! I really liked my Dr. Basically he told me what I wanted to hear.(not that I'm excited about infertility) Which was... That I have "PCOS", Which is not A big deal, if it wasn't for DH's problems, which are...... VERY LOW SPERM & LOW MOTILITY. So he said we should do IVF with ICSI!! He said that it would be a waste of our time and money to do IUI, because of dh symptom's. I was so relieved, I felt the same way. SO after a long 2 yrs. of nothing, we are going to skip everything else, and go straight to IVF.
Now we just have to decide when we want to do this. The Dr. said "it was up to us" of course, but that time is on our side because we're both so young, that we could wait a year, and it wouldn't hurt our chances. We will not wait a year of course.lol He also said that we were the ideal candidates for IVF, and because of our age it gives us up to a 60% chance of success. Oh, we also found out that dh's work wouldn't be a problem, its actually good because we know for sure when he will be home every month, and we could plan it very easily for him to be home when he needs to be. So that's one less thing for me to worry about. :) Now we have some decisions to make about when, and what type of IVF plan we're going to go with. Its in between "2" just pay for 1 IVF treatment or do the "Shared Risk" refund program which gives us 3 IVF cycles & 3 frozen embryo transfers. And a 70% refund if treatments are not successful. What would you do???
I "could" get pregnant on one cycle, or it could take a few more tries. WE don't know what will happen. SO I'm leaning toward the "Shared Risk" program because we will be able to pay for it with out, taking out a loan. It would be a good bit more money, but if we need to do it more times it would be worth it. Although I may get pregnant on the first try, and lose money. Again I'm just wondering what are your thoughts on this?? I'm REALLY HAPPY about this and can't wait to move forward with this. And hopefully, if it is Gods will... I will GET PREGNANT THIS YEAR!!!